Saturday, December 12, 2009

The Enigmatically Spiritual Submissive


What an odd title, no?

Well spiritual things have been on my mind lately, specifically in the BDSM/kinky arena.

There are always these small bursts where sub candidates all seem to apply at the same time. And I make my careful and patient way through them. Oh yes it does take patience.

Patience, because in my mind’s eye I know exactly what kind of sub or slave I want to dominate. It has nothing whatsoever to do with physical type. Rather, it’s so much more to do with the spirit. Their spiritual side, in a way. I’ve never been interested in the odd kinky play that is the BDSM equivalent of a one night stand. I want more, much more than that. But of course it starts with a beginning. The path to finding that special sub with just the right spirit can be a bumpy path. But if my kinky eye catches that special glimpse of the quality person I seek – ah for them I will be very, very patient.

How would I describe this special spirit I seek? It is really hard to put into words. That’s something, coming for me, who values words over gold. More precious than rubies. You could say.

It’s a certain mindset. Either it’s there…or it’s not. Mind you, I’ve come across some fool’s gold in my time. Something that might look bright, shiny and promising at first glance. But then revealed as dull and unoriginal in the harsh morning light. And I’m not one to be bedazzled easily. It takes so very much for me to give that all so important second glance.

So I’ve had a couple of interesting candidates cross my path. Whether anything works out, ah no matter. I am well ready to be disappointed, but open-minded enough to explore and probe the potential of these submissive candidates, to see what may come of them.

Ah that special spirit. A quiet strength. A grace. Soulfulness expressed, even in silence. The yearning to learn, to be taught, shaped and molded. The need for pain. The need to be transported. It is an alchemic process, this. Taking the lead and shaping it into valuable matter.

It just takes the proper dash of the vital ingredient: spirit.


The sub that captures and captivates me must demonstrate spirit. I want no dull lines copy/pasted to every Domme in the universe. I want a creative soul who is attracted to ME and my essence alone. It’s most easy and difficult to ascertain what my unique essence is like. Many have been mistaken or simply not seen at all. I am She, the unique She, who offers an elegant domination for the soul, the spirit. She Who Must be Obeyed. She With Her Eternal Wisdom. She of The Enigmatic Mind. She, The Enigmatic Soul Shaper.

I will shape you. If you are worthy. If you show me the grace of your movements and soul. I will shape you into whatever toy or tool I wish. I will shape your thoughts until they are filled with Me. I will shape you into the submissive that will crave and beg for my touch, my punishments and rewards. I will shape you with pain. I will shape you with tenderness. I will shape you into my creature. I will shape you into the you, you have the potential to be.

I will shape you, sweet spirit. Sweet soul.

Prove yourself worthy of my shaping process.


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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

FetLife's Kinky Holiday Treats & Kinky Kontest


















Hello Kinky Folks!

'Tis the season...to be kinky! Fa la la...la la la laaaaaaaa!

Especially when FetLife is giving away almost $25, 000 worth of kinky presents.
Oh go on....you know you want 'em!

I certainly do and did. Still drooling. Yum.

Step 1
Sit on Santa's lap and tell him what you'd like for the kinky holidays.
Choose your three favorite toys in Santa's bag.

Step 2 // The Last Step
Tell Santa if you've been naughty or nice!?!?
Santa knows… he's perving your pics. :-p

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Now watcha' waiting for?

Go sit on Kinky Santa's Lap and register to win:

Kinky Santa's Lap

Kinky kisses,
Angel


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Monday, December 7, 2009

An Enigmatically Gagalicious Fetish






It was an odd thing the way this just struck me.

Anyone who knows me, knows I dislike following the mainstream.
My taste is the alternative layer of the alternative layer, multiplied.

But a sound and a vision slipped through and snuck in.
I was fascinated and drawn in, almost against my will.
It was like witnessing and being in a car crash at the same time.
And still wanting more.

Two words, simply put: Lady Gaga.

I love her videos, her creative vision, her ridiculously catchy, contagious and absurd beats and lyrics.

She's crazy. She's weird. She's fascinating.
The fetish gear and fetishes. The dark & kinky story lines of her music videos.

Just look at her face. Odd features. Plain if you wash away all the dramatic make-up.
But an interesting canvas.

Is she a she/he? Transgendered? A woman? Who knows.

And this Lady business.

It begs the question: Is she really into BDSM, what with the honorific title and all?

Or is she just a shrewd marketer who knew how to create her vision, make it appeal to the masses, with flirting with the deeper end?

Just for fun, I searched on Fetlife to see what fetishes and kink can be found related to her, because surely amongst the kinksters and BDSMers there are the ones who worship at the Haus of Gaga.

Yes kinky folks she is on FetlIfe!! She's here.
That's if she turned back the clock (all of 18 years old) and moved to Rio.

Oh and other fun gagalicious-related FetLife stuff:

One Fetlife Group:

OMFG... I just fucked Lady Gaga: A survivor's support group..


Two gagalicious fetishes:
And if you want to LIVE in Gaga:
Long live the kinky Gaga saga!

Here is something I never do.
I am posting a video with this, just because.
The video is simply gagalicious and must be.

Kinky kisses,
Angel



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Sunday, November 29, 2009

lust


whispered in my ear
teased my skin and smiled
connected my dots in new, unusual ways

stopped by to say hello and said don’t be a stranger
shared a sexy joke
gave me that look and then walked away

wants to be my intimate new best friend
says it doesn’t have to mean anything
turns my head at passing women and men

pops up where you least expect it
whips up an interesting mélange of vanilla and kink
gives me that déjà-vu sense right in that spot

laughs when I take it too seriously
laughs when I don’t take it seriously enough
wants to be my Mistress and slave at the same time

enters like it owns the joint
leaves me literally hanging on the line
makes me forget to breathe

lust
is back in town and don’t you know it.

***Angel



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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Fare Thee Well, Sweet Sugasm and Hello Exciting e[lust]

Hello Kinky Folks,

I was quite saddened when Radical Vixen decided to take a long sabbatical from editing the Sugasmic Sugasm. I hope one day, the Sugasm may be back.

In the mean-time, e[lust] is following in Sugasm's exciting footsteps by having a similar kinky round-up. Thanks to Dangerous Lilly for creating the brand-spanking-new and exciting e[lust] project. Love the fresh new design as well. Will be looking into contributing for future issues.

Please see below for e[lust]'s exciting debut!

Kinky kisses,
Angel

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e[lust] #1

Welcome to the first edition of e[lust]! Below is your source for inspirations of lust and sexual intelligence from a wide range of sex bloggers. Want to be included in the next edition? Submission period opens for e[lust] # 2 on November 20th – subscribe to the RSS feed and Twitter for all updates! Check out the submission guidelines and rules of general conduct here.

This week’s top three picks as chosen by fellow e[lust] participants:

At Your Service - His hand pushes on my thigh and I turn away from him, allowing him to inspect my ass. His hands spread my ass cheeks and again I flood with wetness.

Cinderella – “‘I want to fuck you…’ he growled, nipping at her neck and kissing down over her breasts, biting at her nipples through the fabric, making her cry out.

Anal Sex Pt 2: The Ins and Outs of Butt Sex - Butt sex is what you make of it. Enjoy yourselves, be careful, and try everything that looks interesting.

Editor’s Pick:

The Slut Chronicles #5 – The Flight Delay – “When her eye caught his blatantly checking her out, he only grinned wider, with no remorse at all and it was she who blushed furiously.”

A note from the editor: And so it begins…

See also: Pleasurist’s #54 for your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

Just A Little Taste
Older and Better Than Ever
Good Morning
Your Eyes
MFM: The Student. The Teacher.
Get Me Off
The Club & Introductory Note
Don’t Come
The City
Howl at the Moon
Rimjob
Consumed
The Devil Inside
One of the Greats
Room Service

Kink & Fetish

A Busy Night
Bad Taste?
Protocols
The Illusion of Beginning: Pt 1
“You hit me…”
Reconnecting
Too Many Buttons
Nadia’s Wishing Box
The Mason Jar
So Sexy Boots

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Swing Shift Vol. 18 – Safe Sex and Getting Tested
Libido Resurrection Programme™
Check Up
Oh, Baby, Baby
UnderRated: Fucking the Mind

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Vixen Invites
I’m Quoted in Time Out NY!
Top Five Tuesday – Euro Studs
She Makes Me Feel Like a Whore



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Monday, November 9, 2009

A BDSM Romance


There is something romantic
about the soft glow of ropes
underneath the moonlight

There is something romantic
about the slithery feel of a flogger's tresses
mapping the pale canvas of quivering flesh
the supplicant on their knees
brushing a kiss on an hand with scarlet-daggered nails


There is something romantic
about hair twined around a hand tight
as a finger teases the sensitive skin
on the back of that vulnerable neck exposed

There is something romantic
about the deep pools of need and want
silently begging from expressive craving eyes

There is something romantic
about the soft & silent stripping away of
all clothes and defenses

There is something romantic
about an old-fashioned slave
moving courteously, anticipating, gracefully
with simple elegance

There is something romantic
about one soul reaching out
to another soul
for guidance
for wisdom
for possession
for ownership

ah the romance
the dance
between the dominated
and the Dominant.


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Tuesday, October 20, 2009

An Enigmatic Taste: Ten of the Kinkiest Science Fiction Books You'll Ever Read


I was thinking about two of my favorite things today: kink and Science Fiction.

I've always enjoyed fantasies that combine both. Both stretch the imagination in new unexplored territories. Combined, they can be a double whammo.

Hmm have you ever looked at the photos from those Sci Fi geeky conventions and noticed just how many sexy costumes there are? Oh yes, ooodles.

Sometimes I wonder how my brain started to combine both.

Perhaps it was the fact that the first kinky/BDSM books I came across happen to be from the Gorean universe. Perhaps.

Well, I was thinking of kink and Science Fiction and thought I would share a delightful list I found on the net today.

I've read three out of the list of ten. Some that I haven't read sound intriguing...
and some sound rather hilarious.

It mentions one of my ever faves, Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel's Dart.
More on the Kushiel Legacy series later, kinky folks.

Enjoy,
Angel


Ten Of The Kinkiest Science Fiction Books You'll Ever Read

By Annalee Newitz

When you finally sneak away from family gatherings this weekend, you're going to want some adult science fiction to take your mind off things. That's why we've got the ultimate holiday counterprogramming for you: 10 kinky science fiction novels that you can hide in your book bag or e-book reader and enjoy late at night when the kids and parents are in bed.

Kushiel's Dart, by Jacqueline Carey
The first novel in a trilogy about Phedre, a spy/courtesan whose two superpowers include learning languages really quickly and a preternatural ability to experience pain as intense sexual pleasure. You'd be surprised how many times erotic masochism comes in handy as Phedre and her fighting monk sidekick journey through an alternate history of the middle ages. Can they stop an evil takeover of the sexually-liberated kingdom of Terre d'Ange? This is one of those rare books that is a good adventure mixed with really hot sex scenes.
Kinks: Sadomasochism.

The Witching Hour, by Anne Rice
The first and by far the best of Anne Rice's interminable Mayfair Witches series, The Witching Hour is the tale of a powerful, randy demon named Lasher who has attached his fate to a family of Louisiana witches. Full of the gothy, historical-crunchy goodness that made Rice a superstar before that whole Jesus thing, this novel is about Lasher's mega-hot dalliance with our main character (he's polymorphous and invisible - you do the math), as well as the history of his love affairs with her ancestors going back several generations. Witchy ladies and sexy ghosts in Louisiana? You can't say no.
Kinks: Mind-control sex, incest.

Returning Creation (from the High Couch of Silistria series), by Janet Morris.
If you like to see ladies brought low, and then raised up to be worshipped, and then brought low again, then the "High Couch of Silistra" series is for you. Set on a planet of psychically-gifted people who embrace sexual diversity and peace, the series is focused mainly on sexual slavery and war. Our heroine is a prostitute (a noble calling on her world) who holds the "high couch" of her town - basically, she's the sex duchess. Unfortunately she's always being kidnapped or taken to other worlds where she's tied up, forced to have degrading sex, and (of course) has lots of tearful, shame-faced orgasms. Silly and pulpy, the first novel in the series is basically a swashbuckler with kinky bondage thrown in between sword fights. Also, there is a giant flying cat.
Kinks: Sexual slavery, bondage.

Gorean Saga, by John Norman
The 26 novels in John Norman's Gorean Saga no doubt inspired the "High Couch" series by Morris, as well as influencing an entire generation of kinky nerds who love to tie each other up and play slavery games. "Goreans" have been acting out their BDSM fantasies online since the days of text-only chat rooms, and they were the first group to buy an island in virtual world Second Life. Find out what all the fuss is about by checking out these novels about a nerdy academic who travels to a parallel world called Gor where all women are in bondage and all men can have their way with these collared, scantily-clad lovelies. All the Gor books are available in e-book form here.
Kinks: Sexual slavery, bondage.

Extraterrestrial Sex Fetish, by Supervert
A demented, hilarious, and theory-geekish tale of Mercury De Sade, who fancies sex with aliens and sets out to tell you, the reader, exactly how to get what you want out of every possible type of alien creature. Creepy in parts, this isn't really a book intended to get you off so much as to make you think about the mechanism of desire itself. Packed with weird interpretations of French philosophy related to alien life, this is a book that will take your breath away if you get off on post-structuralism and humping ET.
Kinks: French philosophy, sex with aliens.

Touched by Venom (from Dragon Temple Saga), by Janine Cross
If you want the full effect of these sexy-disturbing novels, you really have to read all three of them. Zarq is a young woman on a planet where dragons are sort of like a combination of cows, horses, and heroin. The winged creatures are a form of transportation, but people also eat their eggs and their super-addictive venom, which turns them into blissed-out, horny sluts. And even better than eating venom, which grows on dragon tongues? Well, it's actually having those dragons stick their venom-tongues deep inside your you-know-what place.
Kinks: Bestiality, drugs.

Lilith's Brood, by Octavia Butler

More alien sex awaits you in Butler's trilogy about an alien species that wants to merge with humans on a biological level. The aliens have three sexes, and their third sex has the ability to tap into your nervous system and give you the most amazing braingasm you've ever had. It can also remix genetic material to create human-alien hybrids. These novels are smart, politically-charged tales of what happens when humanity is colonized. But they also contain several scenes that manage to be both erotic and integral to our characters' development.
Kinks: Mind control sex, incest, tentacles.

The Pleasure Tube, by Robert Onopa
A guilty pleasure, Onopa's novel is about a conspiracy on board a special ship called "the pleasure tube," where you experience perfect happiness and sexual fulfillment while your brain is plugged into a computer. Mostly it's just a 1970s cheesefest, filled with lots of drugs and interchangeable hot ladies in crazy outfits. But there are also a lot of fun "we will plug this into your brain's pleasure centers" moments too.
Kinks: Swinging, cybersex.

The Velderet, by Cecilia Tan
If you've never experienced Tan's erotic science fiction writing, then you are in for a treat. Not only does she write the hottest kinky SF you've ever read, but she even runs a small press called Circlet that's devoted to erotic SF books. The Velderet is one of her masterpieces, about two people who go into a virtual world to find partners for the BDSM sex that's forbidden on their repressive planet. But then a race of aliens arrive to conquer their planet, and not only do these aliens practice kinky sex, but it's the foundation for their entire social system. So our kinky outlaw heroes are the best-equipped people on the planet to deal with the alien menace. Come for the sex, but stay for the awesome tale of alien invasion. The Velderet is available as an e-book from Circlet.
Kinks: Sadomasochism, cybersex, gender-role swapping.

Saturn's Children, by Charles Stross
The tale of a sexbot trapped in a vast smuggling conspiracy, Stross' novel is a veritable wonderland of kinky fun. Our heroine Freya is designed to be a sexbot, so she experiences everything through the medium of sexuality, including spaceship rides and pretty much any humanoid she meets. Highly recommended, though be warned that the sex is mostly played for laughs rather than hotness.
Kinks: Incest, robot sex, sex with furniture, sex with spaceships, sex with anime characters.

from http://io9.com/


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Sunday, September 27, 2009

Through An Enigmatic Looking Glass


So many thoughts of men. So many thoughts of women.

And so much in between.

I've been taking a mini hiatus from all things kinky lately, as I've been thinking of the dark path I've walked so far.

So many questions and more questions. Often I am surprised by the answers.

What do I want? So many things. And very little. There is a simplicity to my thoughts.
And a multi-layered complexity as well. I am ever a contradiction. In this, and in other aspects of my life.

I was reading a piece of writing filled with yearning tonight and it made me think of my own dark desires. Those I've tasted. Those I've fantasized about. Those that were not meant to be. Those that I left behind. Those that did not evolve as I evolved.

Where do I go from here, I ask myself.

There are so many voices out in the BDSM bloggers' universe, filled with so many different emotions. And different desires.

What we all have in common is our need to be heard, perhaps.

This enigmatic little place is one. With the sound of my enigmatic voice. Truth be told, at times I am even an enigma to myself. But that's not a bad thing. It's exciting, this discovery and unveiling.

I don't know where I'll go tomorrow.
But I'll post a postcard from the next enigmatic spot in my dark voyage.

Later, my kinky readers.


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Monday, September 7, 2009

Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #172


Another week I´m in the Sugasm, kinky folks!

And in a BRAND spanking new category.
Thanks to Radical Vixen for changing the category title to "Erotic Poetry" on my suggestion.

Savor the Sugasm, kinky folks.

Angel ;)


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Sugasm #172


The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #173? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
A Hot Fuck in a Parking Lot
“We got more daring and soon clothes were a hindrance to our insistent hands.”

I Think I’d Rather Misbehave
“I bet the secret thrill of this has your cock already climbing to attention.”

The Painter
“He says something, small talk, and I stutter something back, lost in the blue depths of his eyes.”

Sugasm Editor
Strildo?

Editor’s Choice
Yet Another Reason You Should Buy a Vibrator

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

Erotic Poetry
Enigmatic dance (*******My Sugasmic Entry!********)
Loved It.

Erotic Writing & Experiences
24 Hours To Cum
Be Careful What You Wish For…
Desire
Embarrassed, Amused and Turned On
Helping Hand
HNT 4 (and a savoury story)
Masturbation Madness
Mornings…
A much needed fucking…
Now She’s Giving The Orders
Shopping Day
This is Lolita on drugs (2)
This Is My Remedy
The Year 39 Update
You don’t want biographical info. I know what you REALLY want.

Sex Advice
Anal Play: Fingering
Brush Up Your Orgasm
Shay’s Condom Tips

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Burns of punishment
Famosas azotables
Fit to be Tied
Free Heidi Montag Playboy Pictures – September 2009
Learning the lesson…
Naked and Caned

BDSM & Fetish
4 Scenes
Collar, Cuffs And Clamps
Driven by lust….
Honey Pass Me the Nut Cracker
The Negress Natters: Submission.
The perfect body for three-minute porn

Sex Humor
How Many Licks?

Thoughts on Sex & Relationships
The Confession…Coming Soon
Half-Nekkid Heavenly Body
In Search of…. my Clitoris
Is this the dark side of porn?
(Mis)Adventures In Dating: Do You Know Who I Am?
Nonstop Orgasms – HER Perspective

News, Reviews & Interviews
Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin
Icegasm Kit
Top Five Tuesday - Win 1000 FREE Porn Minutes




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Sunday, August 30, 2009

More Thoughts on The Enigmatic Belgian Fan


I think anyone who has a FEEDJIT widgit on their blog, will have an Enigmatic Belgian fan of their own.

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Saturday, August 29, 2009

enigmatic dance


You & I
oh what an enigmatic mix

when I look in your eyes
I see a reflection of me
and my own eyes
hold a reflection of you

we mirror each other

our hands dip
together
tracing the bossanova beat
that lazily passes through
the air
and us

we don't even need words

the smile is the same
the raised eyebrow is the same
the slightly wicked laugh
that promises bad things under the moonlight
is the same
the soft sigh that slips out
is the same

even the names are not important
when the basic nature
is the same

there is no need to speak
when it feels so good to savour the mystery

there is no need for questions
when there are plenty of answers
in the movement, the sway of the body, the eyes knowing look

ah

this is what happens
when you let yourself be free
one enigma to another
floating on an enigmatic sea...

***Angel
(inspired by one of Sinner's sinful songs)


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An Enigmatically Dynamic Education: Marketplace Author Laura Antoniou & Educator Midori ~ Authentic Power Dynamics and D/s Workshops


Be still my kinky heart.

I am always on the prowl to see where interesting BDSM Workshops are offered around the world. Recently, I added a new category to my Enigmatic Angel Lists blog: Tasty Courses & Workshops Around The World.

And of course, I have long been aware of Midori's workshops around the world. Many local BDSMers have participated in her Rope Dojo workshops. And I've been subscribed on her mailing list forever.

And yes, I did know that Laura Antoniou and educator Midori were well-acquainted, seeing as Midori wrote an introduction to one of my favorite Laura Antoniou Marketplace books.

But here is an item sent to me through the calender listings of Midori's mailing list,
that almost made my kinky heart stop:

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NEW! D/S PROTOCOL WEEKEND WITH LAURA ANTONIOU & MIDORI
(Washington DC & Toronto)

WHAT: "Passionate Bonds: Weekend Intensive for Conscious D/s & Protocol"

WHERE / WHEN:
2 Locations / Dates

- November 6 – 8, Washington DC
- November 20 – 21, Toronto, Canada

COST: $450 first person in the order. $400 for each additional individual.
Registration for both locations open September 18th at
http://www.FHP-inc.com/classes.php


Join Marketplace author Laura Antoniou and educator Midori for a special weekend
intensive designed for people who enjoy authentic power dynamics and D/s,
who want to consciously create quality relationships that suit their
personal hungers and needs in the context of the real world.

Far beyond what you can learn from a book or a standard seminar,
participants will be guided through a special curriculum designed to
clearly identify their value system, behavior preferences and relationship goals.

Through the unique curriculum and its innovative tools, each individual or
relationship unit will create their own customized manual of effective protocol,
rules, etiquettes and codes of conducts.

Class size will be strictly limited to allow for a unique quality experience
emphasizing individualized attention.

Q&A

Q. Do I need to bring a partner?
A. No! Anyone may attend, partnered or not.

Q. I am fairly new and my partner and I are exploring options. Is this for me?
A. This is perfect for you; come on in and discover your passions.

Q. I have been in the Scene for a while and I have considerable experience.
Can this be helpful for me?
A. Absolutely. Crystallize your experience and desires into a tangible and
intentional format, which will allow for greater success in your current and
future relationships. Come and reacquaint yourself with the dreams and desires
that brought you into the scene, and find out things about yourself and
your partner(s) you might not have seen before.

Q. My primary and I have a submissive – can all three of us come?
A. Pricing for this intensive is purposefully set to allow for “relationship units”
of every size; this is by no means ‘couples only’!

Q. Is this a play event? Will there be play parties?
A. While the Passionate Bonds weekend won’t be hosting play parties,
the local play space will be great to go and explore. The weekend’s emphasis
is on the heart and mind of creating an on-going D/s-based relationship,
so get plenty of sleep and be prepared to think! There will be sections
where physical actions of protocol will be studied and acted out.
Beyond that, we encourage the attendees to create their own playtime as
part of the weekend.


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OK there is the very first item for my Enigmatic Angel Wish List:

  • 1 pass for the November 20 – 21, Toronto, Canada, workshop!

Spoil me with this, my enigmatic admirers, and you will become my new kinky best friend!

Kinky kisses,
Angel
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Monday, August 24, 2009

1oo Enigmatic Things About Me


  1. I taught myself to read between the ages of 3-4.
  2. I learned to read thanks to Sesame Street.
  3. 3 languages I've studied, that I'd like to take courses in again: German, Spanish & Italian.
  4. I need to make a few wish lists.
  5. I'm a big kid at heart.
  6. I have a lot of fantasies about dominating men I still want to realize.
  7. I have a lot of fantasies about dominating women I still want to realize.
  8. I have a lot of fantasies about black men I still want to realize.
  9. I have a lot of fantasies about black women I still want to realize.
  10. My biggest turnoff is super-aggressive Dominant men who have no imagination.
  11. I hate would-be submissives that approach me who show no imagination.
  12. My submissive side is profound and deep.
  13. I am super-protective of my submissive side and rarely show it publicly.
  14. I want to learn so much more about rope.
  15. I think I'm weird most of the time.
  16. I'm fascinated by weird things.
  17. I'm fascinated by shadows.
  18. I'm fascinated by mysteries.
  19. I'm fascinated by both sides of pain.
  20. My fantasy vacation would be to go all over Asia.
  21. My real name sounds more exotic than my scene name.
  22. Many women use my real name as their scene name.
  23. I love having my feet pampered in so many ways.
  24. I don't have my feet pampered as often as I'd like.
  25. Many of my BDSM fantasies take place in a Science Fiction/Fantasy scenario.
  26. I can't get enough of foreign films.
  27. I can't get enough of kinky films.
  28. When it comes to reading I like to multi-task, often reading 3 books at the same time.
  29. I've reread some books so many times, they seem like old friends.
  30. I've seen some films so many times, they seem like old friends.
  31. I have no piercings or tattoos.
  32. I'd like to get some piercings done.
  33. I love trying different foods from different ethnic groups.
  34. I drink very little alcohol.
  35. I have a blue collection made up of many blue things.
  36. I just can't have enough corsets.
  37. I just can't have enough sexy shoes.
  38. I'm an avid collector of lists.
  39. I'm an extremely private person who is careful of my private space, in the real-world.
  40. I'm an extremely private person who is careful of my private space, in the cyber-world.
  41. As a teenager I was too damn smart for my own good and liked to squash people who underestimated me.
  42. I am the most gentle person in the world.
  43. I am the most curious person in the world.
  44. I have many favorite teas and coffees.
  45. I love a good rosé wine.
  46. I wish I was a better cook.
  47. I love when someone cooks for me.
  48. I have a very small number of really close friends.
  49. I have literally hundreds of acquaintances.
  50. I'm a very out-going and social person.
  51. I am also an introvert with a shy side.
  52. I like things to be done just-so to my taste.
  53. I love the feeling of an adrenalin rush,
  54. I love to observe human behavior in any arena.
  55. I am an INFJ, also known as a Counselor Idealist, found in only 2% of the population (apparently).
  56. People have been surprised many times by my intuition.
  57. I have many alternative spiritual beliefs.
  58. I'm fascinated by people who have alternative spiritual beliefs.
  59. I have a fear of heights.
  60. I've pushed myself to experience heights, despite my fear of heights.
  61. There are so many kinky toys I'd still like to try.
  62. My taste in submissive candidates can be rather eccentric.
  63. Lately I've been fascinated by the colour pink.
  64. I still read children's books sometimes.
  65. I love kids but have no interest in having any kids of my own.
  66. I love French accents.
  67. I've never been to France – but would love to.
  68. Lots of people have complimented me on my French accent.
  69. I'm a photography nut who loves to shoot.
  70. I still haven't found the camera equipment of my dreams
  71. I love to write and blog.
  72. I've been writing poetry since....forever.
  73. I love reading awe-inspiring poetry from other poets.
  74. I can get inspired by almost anything.
  75. I sometimes get bored easily.
  76. There are so many courses I'd like to take.
  77. I still haven't found the job of my dreams.
  78. I prefer subtle things that leave a little to the imagination, than graphic things that are in your face.
  79. I still get turned on by graphic things though.
  80. I love to see two men kissing.
  81. I love to see two men making love.
  82. I love to see two women kissing.
  83. I love to see two women making love.
  84. I don't own enough porn.
  85. I don't own an ipod.
  86. I think gadgets are interesting, but I own few gadgets.
  87. I'd like to learn how to play the guitar one day.
  88. I like the way I sound when I sing but almost never sing in public.
  89. I love long hot candle-lit baths but rarely make the time for them.
  90. I love a great foot massage.
  91. I love a great massage.
  92. I like to give people compliments not to gain anything, but because it feels good.
  93. I am very discriminating about who I compliment.
  94. I am extremely curious about who the Enigmatic Belgian fan is, and would love to hear from them.
  95. My taste in music encompasses a whole wide universe of sound.
  96. I love to meditate.
  97. I love to meditate in nature.
  98. I love living life in the big city.
  99. I've lived in the same city all my life.
  100. I love reading other bloggers' lists about themselves.


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Saturday, August 22, 2009

alchemy


I turn your flesh, your spirit, your soul
into something other

somewhere you soar
in your half-state

chasing a delicious wicked thought
I whispered in your ear

before

you were leaden
your world
grey dull silent

now

you shine like gold
that has been lovingly buffed
by caring tender hands

what a glimmering shimmering light you shine

as I send you away far away
on a journey of bliss and discovery

shine on, shine on
newly born one

I will nurture you
in your evolution
as you follow your quest

I will bring you far
off into the stars
now spinning in your mind

I am the Mistress Alchemist
of your
fate.

***Angel

(inspired by Liras and her transmutable blog)


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Friday, August 21, 2009

A FetLife Munch: An Enigmatically Slapping Good Time


Ah it was good to be back, back in the public kinky waters of Montreal.
Attending the FetLife Munch felt like kind of going home again.

I was happy to see a few of my favorite usual suspects. Like my good friend and some time *evyl* co-conspirator Mystress Lady Evyl, and one of my very favorite couples in our local scene MsV (our gracious hostess) and Master Andre, her fellow whipmaking partner.

Oh and what fun it was to slap hello my fellow Switch drakor, who I hadn't seen in awhile. I do believe that small slap put a little twinkle in his eye. And what are friends for? :)

It was also fun to meet some intriguing new people, including a warm & entertaining couple of out-of-towners.

And you never know where the conversation can lead during a Munch. Topics ran from the Intellikilt ( you just had to see it to believe it) and the legendary practical jokes between John Baku (boy wonder founder of Fetlife) and MasterZChicago.

I picked a great event for my return to the public scene - laid-back, fun & funny conversation with fellow BDSMers and kinksters, over some tasty seafood and steak. I actually liked the fact that it was a smaller crowd as well, was easier to talk to people.

My plan had originally been to go on to one of the other many happenings in town. Three other tempting events in the dark side were also going on during the night. I was really interested in finally attending one of KinkMontreal's little happy hours, which was scheduled a bit later on in the night. But seeing as I had a vanilla date planned for the morning, I decided to call it a night, as my fellow Munchers went each to continue their wicked evening with more dark fun in the night.

It felt good to be out again and happy I was to be in the kink-friendly Gay Village.

Being back in the Village made me remember how much I love roaming around that neighborhood. I love seeing all the wonderfully exotic range of gender-bending human creatures who stroll through the Village on a hot summer night.

Little snapshots caught my attention as I headed off home.

There a couple of gorgeous young boys casually walking together hand in hand.

Oh and a bashful pretty girl in a summery cotton white dress, eyes meekly looking down. Her black leather collar and silvery leash attached making a lovely contrast. Ah how tempting it was to just reach out and take that leash....somewhere.

And I headed on home still smiling my Mona Lisa smile filled with secret thoughts and thinking how very interesting my life is these days.

It's so true how life brings such wonderful things when you have no expectations.

Kinky food for thought,
Angel


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An Enigmatic Angel's Return To The Public Kinky Life


Today, I was trying to remember when was the last fetish or BDSM public (or even semi-public) event that I've attended. And you know what - I was stumped.

I think it may have been last year's Kinky Festival, which was a watershed for me in many ways. Lots of good and bad and light bulb moments there.

I was fortunate to attend 2 Kinky Girls' Night Outs in the past 6 months, which were just wonderful kinky-girl-bonding moments and so much fun.

But in terms of fully public events, it has been ages.

But tomorrow night, Friday August 21, will be my reentry into all things kinky, on the public stage. I will be attending the FetLife Montreal Munch, hosted by the ever gracious Ms V, who I am happy to call my friend.

Thinking of attending? Well check out the details here, through the FetLife discussion about it.

And if you do sign up, be sure to ask where to find a certain Enigmatic Angel.

I will be the one with the Mona Lisa smile, sitting in the corner there.

Kinky kisses,
Angel


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Tuesday, August 18, 2009

A Kissably Enigmatically Poetic Blog


If there is one thing that inspires a poet, is sublime poetry from other poets.

During my enigmatic travels, I recently found a blog filled such such sensually addictive poetry, it just made me sigh with a soulfully-deep contentment in my enigmatically poetic soul.

What do you get when you have a union between Cupid and Psyche?

A voluptuous blend of eye candy and soul food.

Join S. in her kissable journey so slowly and deftly unwinding in her Voluptas universe.

Just had to share this.

Kinky kisses,
Angel

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Saturday, August 15, 2009

The Enigmatic Belgian Fan


Qui est-tu?

Dit moi.



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Friday, August 14, 2009

doucement, softly


doucement
je te vois

doucement
je te touche

doucement
je te comprends

doucement
je te prends

doucement

softly
I see you

softly
I touch you

softly
I understand you

softly
I take you

softly.

***Angel

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Wednesday, August 12, 2009

the body symphony


it began somewhere,
sometime

eyes glancing off of eyes

the barest skim of fingers
across bare skin

that small sharp intake of breath
when that frisson of excitement
passes through

the shy tremble riding its wave
across the anticipating body

a word or two on a page
that made the heart skip a beat
for a moment

the voice breathing into an ear
that knowing voice

small delicate movements
in the body symphony
created the initial landscape
of desire and hope and wishful things
building the crescendo
both wish will never come
because the waves consume
body mind soul in too many
delicious ways

ah

hold that moment
hold that thought
hold that feeling

tightly curled inside
unfurling ever so slowly, sensually soft
tortuously tenuous
delightfully painful in its intensity

hold it hold it hold it

right

there.

*** Angel 08/12/09

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