Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Switching Tides

I swim between the tides.

There is the comfort of the known shore,
my home these last ten years.
I tasted and feasted on such tasty pain there.
And still – and yet – I still crave more.

But out there
there is a savage wilderness
that calls to me, that beckons.

There I find the naked flesh
which quivers beneath my long exploring nails.
There I find that shiny gaze
filled with adoration.
There I find the supplicant begging
to be striped, to be marked, to be bound and so much more.

I swim between the tides
and wonder

which shore
shall claim
my soul
today.

*** Angel


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Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #151

I'm back in the Sugasm again, kinky folks!
Have a sugasmic taste yourself, here.

Angel ;)


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Sugasm #151

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #152? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Help, My Friend Says I Have an Ugly Vagina!
“Say no to vagina prejudice!”

“Kiss My Boots.”
“One of the more unexpected hairpin turns I navigated in my “Coming Out” into BDSM involved a series of moments that were deceptively simple, perhaps even innocent, in a way.”

Yours, Sir
“I felt and then heard a low rumble of a slightly sadistic chuckle from him.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Sass And The Sadist

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
BDSM, S&M and Sex And The City ***************MY POST***************
Girl On Top
Got to Love Subby Friends
“He Calls me”SLUT”" ~I call him MASTER!
I know you
My Muse-15th entry
A Quiet Night In
Sweet VS Saucy
That’s a great way to spend an afternoon

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Crying Game
Cute animals don’t belong in my pussy
HNT - Shaking that Arse
Searching for something as yet unknown
Shame on you, part 2 [podcasturbation]

Sex & Politics
But People Don’t See My Fetish As Sexy! How Do I Write About It?
Red is the New Black

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
HNT Lucky Heather 3
HNT: Shut me up…
Half-Nekkid Queyntes
New York Leather Weekend - Sunday
Sublime Nudes

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
A Cocktease Session with a Leg Harness and Dildo
FAQs on Jefferson’s Custody Case
Recession Sex Toys
Top Five Tuesday - Bisexual Movies
VibeReview Fantasy: Bendybeads

Sex Work
Humiliation with a Tiny-dicklet Caller
Sex Work And Compassion: I Show No Compassion

Erotic Writing and Experiences
14 Days, 14 Girls Part 4: Kim
Duties of The Admired Fuck
First Day on the Job
The First Squirt
Intoxication
Let me introduce you to my special talent….
Neighbor’s Hot Tub
Possession
Privacy Please
Rebel in the Wild
A Return to Form
Seductive Sin
She can take more.
Someplace I’ve never been, part 3
Stripper Academy
Thrill In The Woods - Chapter 2
Wanting to Be Wanted
Wet Spots


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Friday, October 10, 2008

BDSM, S&M and Sex And The City






"La Douleur Exquise!"
Sex And The City

Season 2
Episode 24






Lately, I have been binging on
Sex And The City.

I have systematically been making my way through all the episodes.
Right now, I am up to Season 5.
Oh my, what a fun, girly-girl fest it has been! :)

I saw the movie this summer and had never watched an episode of the quintessential New York show before. So I promised myself that one day I would watch all the chapters of this hit show.

As I watched I realized, wow there are so many BDSM elements in
Sex And The City!

And then I hit an episode called
"La Douleur Exquise!" (The Exquisite Pain), about the hot new S&M restaurant that Samantha introduces the girls to, which leaves one thinking about the relationship between the girls and BDSM.

So I had a thought.

What if our
Sex And The City gal pals
were in the BDSM Scene?
What roles would they fit?

And this is what I dreamed up - just for fun!

Samantha (Domme and Dominatrix)

Samantha is such a natural Domme and would make a great Pro-Domme as well.
Men paying for the privilege of pleasing her in every way - and leaving them frustrated? Perfect.

Somehow I imagine a large stable of glistening hot studs seeing to her every sensual and sexual need. Perfect gleaming oily manflesh begging to serve their Mistress all at once - and currying for her favour. She would be the very Domme Queen in her FemDom QueenDom.

And if she worked as a Pro-Domme?

Just imagine what her professional dungeon would look like.
Acres and acres of wicked gleaming toys. Oh and I imagine there would be a queening station somewhere in there as well. Since she enjoys fine dining in more ways than one. ;)

Didn't she just handle that riding crop so easily in that S&M episode?
You just knew she was no stranger to the kinkier side of the toy closet.

Charlotte (The Service-Oriented and Role-Playing Slave)

I see Charlotte being the Perfect French Maid, providing impeccable service to her Master, while fetching his slippers, pouring his drinks or tea for his guests. Giving her Master a wonderful massage, drying him with fluffy towels as he steps out of his bath,

Charlotte would also make an excellent Pony Girl. She would love being kitted out in her shiny and spic & span pony gear, trotting for her Master. And being ridden very very well. Oh so very British as well.

Miranda (The Switchy Switch)

Miranda is the most ambiguous of the 4 gal pals, in more ways than one.
She can be very tough and act and dress just like one of the boys - her butch side. Or she can also show a vulnerable submissive side, that craves being take care of, treasured and loved.

I can easily see her topping (both men and women), and then easily flipping to bottoming to taste some exquisite pain herself.

Carrie (The Sexual Submisive)

Well of course Carrie would be a sexual submissive. She probably already owns the largest collection of "fuck me shoes". All those dreamy Manolo Blahniks, Jimmy Choos, and Christian Louboutins. Just add more boots - especially the thigh-high kind - and her wardrobe would be set.

And boy oh boy doesn't her character just scream submissive?
All her neurotic game-playing - I bet she would love to be taken in hand by the very firm - yet loving and sensual hand of a man.

OK none of this is at all politically correct. So shoot me...lol

But can't you just imagine their outfits??

They would be just....exquisitely perfect.

Angel ;)

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Sunday, September 21, 2008

Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #147

Sugasm #147

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #148? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

Amazing
““You’re lucky I’m not being mean right now.””

Cum Squirt With Me. Confession #131
“Not much research has been done on the female orgasm in general, much less this seemingly new erotic marvel.”

Jealousy, Pornography and the Boundaries of Blogging
“I search to be a sexually free, independent and satisfied woman without the stigma of slut yet with the positive implications of slut.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Blue Fantasy, Red Silk Rope

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Enigmatic Angel Finds Out Just HOW Kinky She IS
********MY POST! :) ***********

Fetish Fridays: Interview With A Sissy
How Grey Does Your Garden Grow?
Rock Me Sexy Jesus
We don’t plan to stop
Where Do I Fit In The Picture
Why I hire escorts
Why, Oh Why Do I Like Watching My Wife Get Fucked
You Are Beautiful Tonight

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
DVD Review: “Hostel Lupus” (Lupus Pictures)
Lady Sascha Reviews the Light-Of-Love T
Sarge Ties Up Charlotte Vale On Hogtied
VibeReview Fantasy: Decadent Indulgence

Sex & Humor
Overheard In BDSM

BDSM & Fetish
Bonds of Love
Brutal Bastinado And Intense Sadistic BDSM
Don’t Slam The Door
Exceeding My Expectations
Meeting with BS 4
Mistress or Lusty Bitch?
Public Displays of Discipline
Renewing and Reviewing: Rule 5
Sarge Says: The Vale That Is Thin Enough For Me
Sex and Submission Round 2 Report: Mz Berlin, Mark Davis, And Bondage
She works hard for a living…

Sex Work
Satine Phoenix Is A Sinner? Repent Repent Repent!

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Clips and Clamps
Feather Fan HNT
Half-Nekkid Thursday: Sunny Side Up

Sex Advice
Bend over boyfriend how to make him want anal sex
How To Put On A Condom In The Dark
Man-Handled: What Makes the Perfect Blowjob?

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Being Alone
Catalina loves Fucking Mr. F (In My Mind At Least)
Chasseur
Fuck My Mouth
Horny
The Long Kiss Goodnight
Making out in the air part1
One
What She Forgot - Another Friday Night Bedtime Story
While it rains outside…

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Tuesday, September 16, 2008

The Enigmatic Angel Finds Out Just HOW Kinky She IS

Ok so I've always wanted to know - just how kinky am I??

So I browsed and googled all over to find the best test - the kinkiest test -
that would measure my kink levels.

Everywhere I looked I found people referred to their kinky scores on the Hotlanta Kink test.

Well - who knew the Atlanta area was filled with such kinksters?
Well now I do! LOL

So here is my Kinky score:

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The Hotlanta Kink Test


Congratulations!

Your Hotlanta Kink Test score was 635!

Here is the chart so that you can see how you rated:

100 or lessYou need to lighten up and live a little!
101 to 200 You have an average sex life in need of kink.
201 to 300 You have sweet hints of a kinky nature.
301 to 400 You have kinky playful tendencies.
401 to 500 You are definitely a kinky player.
501 to 600 You are kinkier than most!
601 to 700 You are a major league kinkster!
701 to 800 You live and breath kinky!!
801 to 900 Wow! You're too kinky for most!!!
901 or moreSUPER FREAK ALERT! You da BOMB!

The maximum score for this test is 1000.

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I actually thought I would score higher...go figure. :)

The Hotlanta Kink test is a very interesting one. It starts off with asking questions about many different kinds of sex and then heads into the bdsm/fetish areas.

And it sure was a whole lot of fun to take.
So why don't you go ahead...find out just how kinky YOU are.
And be sure to let me know.

Angel :)

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Saturday, September 13, 2008

Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #146

Giving In To That Sugasm Craving...

Hmmm been awhile since I tasted the Sugasm.
Time to share that sugasmic taste with you all again!

Angel :)


Sugasm #146

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #147? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Nipple clamps, butt plug, Hitachi - oh my!
“Once the plug is in, I’m going to send you on a little walk.”

I discover transcendental orgasm
“It was peaceful, and like holding on to a live wire at the same time.”

When We Were Kids: Thoughts on BDSM
“The tying was always my favourite part, whether I was the one tied who had to escape, or the one who got to do the tying.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Like a Prayer - Part 2

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
After the Party … (part III)
Catalina loves Naughty Secretary Roleplay
Charlotte Vale And I (Mz Berlin) In Bondage Gangbang On The Training Of O
The Enigmatic Angel’s Kinky Cinematic Journey ******MY POST! :) *******
The Pleasure Of Torment
Push Button Behavior Modification
The Sarge And Backdoor Bondage Have Great Impact Play And Hogtied Style Bondage Content
Shoes, it’s really all about the shoes.
Snap, Crackle, and Pop
Whipped Pussy Reminds You To Always Keep A Spare In The Trunk

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Bite Me
Chess
Lunch Date
On the phone
People we’ve always wanted to be
Submitting Again: Part 3
Top
Webcam
While it rains outside…
Your Gorgeous Polish Girlfriend does not feel like having sex tonight

Sex Work
The Age of Porn: Performers, Attraction, and Age
So there I was, with a caller…
The Whore in the House Next Door

NSFW pics
Dana by Goncharov (Met Art)
Fetish Model & PornSLUTkitty Gets Her Head Tattooed
A Fully Naked HHNT
Not a masochist

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
The Lelo Mia
Nea: by Lelo
Njoy’s Amazing Butt Plugs - A Sex Toy Review
Sex News Roundup

BDSM & Fetish
After the Party … (part III)
Catalina loves Naughty Secretary Roleplay
Charlotte Vale And I (Mz Berlin) In Bondage Gangbang On The Training Of O
The Enigmatic Angel’s Kinky Cinematic Journey
The Pleasure Of Torment
Push Button Behavior Modification
The Sarge And Backdoor Bondage Have Great Impact Play And Hogtied Style Bondage Content
Shoes, it’s really all about the shoes.
Snap, Crackle, and Pop
Whipped Pussy Reminds You To Always Keep A Spare In The Trunk

Sex Advice
Help, my boyfriend won’t go down on me!

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Can A Threesome Help You Find Your True Love?
Eco Sex and Green BDSM
Femme is a Noun, an Adjective, a Verb…
If You are Charming Smart, but Ugly, I Fuck You For Sure!
It’s a struggle.
Stripper Milf versus Stripper Teen: 69 points to ponder
Where The Hell Did My Boobs Go?

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Sunday, September 7, 2008

The Enigmatic Angel's Kinky Cinematic Journey

























The Good, The Bad - and The Cheesy

Do you remember what was the first kinky film you ever watched out on the big screen?

Recently, I tripped down memory lane when a series of clicks led me to remember my first kinky cinema outing - Preaching To the Perverted.

Flashback 10 years ago.

I sat in the old Eaton Centre cinema in downtown Montreal (which had become repertoire-esque in those last days before it closed) and felt such a sense of experiencing the wickedly forbidden - right out in the open where anyone could see me.

The theatre was not even half-full. It was a sea of fashionable black, as if we had all agreed on what to wear before we left the house. I felt like there was a HUGE spotlight on me because my fellow movie goers were mostly men sitting alone, with the odd couple here and there. I was the only woman there by herself. There was a touch of leather of course - leather pants and jackets - and a black studded collar or two.

A man came in and sat down a few rows behind me, in the back section of the cinema. He gave me one hard stare and I suspected he didn't want anyone sitting near him - and I guessed at the reason why. During the movie, I heard some constant rocking sounds that came from his direction and you can easily guess the reason for it. I had to try not to laugh as I wondered if he got off during the movie.

As for the movie itself, well for me it was such a decadent and tasty visual treat. It was about a moral crusader who tries to infiltrate the world of an infamous and beautiful Dominatrix. In the end, he just could not resist her wicked and enticing allure. Oh sure, I did think the end seemed a little pat and tacked on - but the rest of the movie? Oh my! It was tasty and gorgeous and the clothes!
Guinevere Turner, who played the Evil Temptress Tanya Cheex, was so damn HOT in her delicious outfits. I think that might have been the first time I lusted for a woman. It sure left some questions in my mind. And I was so sad when the movie came to an end. Oh and just for fun, as I got up to leave the cinema I couldn't help but look at my highly-active fellow cinema-goer as he left. He looked rather sheepish when I just gave him one long, cool look. Kind of like a deer caught in headlights.

That was my first kinky cinema outing (outing in more ways than one) and that sure released the dam. Through-out the years, I always kept my eyes peeled for other kinky flicks and went to all the ones I could find.

There was Quills, a movie about the Marquis de Sade and the time he spent in prison.
Geoffrey Rush did a fine job of playing a beguiling Marquis, leading a young priest, played by the tasty Joaquin Phoenix - and others - into temptation - all while still locked up in his cell.

The most atrocious and abominable rendition of a bdsm book had to have been the disastrous big screen adaption of Anne Rice's Exit To Eden. All the bdsm content was turned into a spoof and a joke. All of sudden a totally ludicrous subplot containing thieves and undercover cops had been inserted into the story-line - all to include 2 big stars - Rosie O'Donnell and Dan Aykroyd . I suspected the director and producer did that because they didn't think the movie would be carried on its own momentum. Well, it was a total cop-out. Here was a chance to bring to life one of my favourite and sublime Anne Rice books and it was made into an unattractive and ridiculous mess. I was incensed. The male friend I brought with me (who I later dated and who had a small taste for kink it turned out) did seem turned on by the bdsm content though - so something good came out of that movie at least. The movie was a great opener for me to discuss kinky things with him.

Most recently, I watched for the nth time, one of my favourite big screen bdsm movies, Secretary, on dvd.

What can I say about Secretary? Why do I like it so much?

Well, it's not about the bdsm or fetish scene at all. It's about 2 regular human beings who explore the concepts of Domination and submission together. I think that may be one of the reasons why I enjoy it so much - it reminds me a bit about me and my own journey.

Oh and while I was musing about the kinky films I've seen on the big screen, I stumbled upon a few interesting kinky film festivals, which I've now added to my blog under the header "Tasty Film Links".

Happy Kinky Movie Viewing, Kinky Folks!

Angel :)

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Saturday, August 23, 2008

KinkySexLink.com: The Enigmatic Angel's New Home Away From Home

A ***NEW*** BDSM Haven for BDSM Bloggers

Recently, my good friend Lady Evyl decided to start up a new and exciting project: KinkySexLink.com.

KinkySexLink.com is a new site featuring an exciting and eclectic group of kinky, fetish and bdsm bloggers.

Well, when my good friend invited me to join this exciting new concept -
how could I say no?

It's just TOO tempting! :)

There are so many sites for sex bloggers out there but where can you find a site that welcomes an amalgamation of the kinkiest and most diverse bloggers out there?

So, I will be hanging out at
KinkySexLink.com from time to time.

You'll see me cross-posting some posts from this blog, but I will also be writing content only to be found on
KinkySexLink.com, my new virtual home away from home. :)

Check out my first post there:
Kinky Sex Link: A Kinky Haven For Kinky Bloggers


Come and check it out....the water's warm, kinky folks!

Angel :)

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Tuesday, August 12, 2008

A Domme To Combat The I.R.S.....and More


A Domme To Manage Your Money

Well, this is just something kind of neat that I stumbled across.

I know that many Dommes have their specialities. But this was just too great.

Meet Mistress Lori, The Tax Domme.
"Bringing your tax liability to its knees", her website says.

Oh and here is another cool thing.
Her mom is the The Financial Madam.

Looks like two sharp cookies with great genes!
Talk about great marketing indeed.

Too bad they only work in the U.S. ;)

Angel :)

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Monday, August 11, 2008

Sex Bloggers, Traffic, Kinky Festival...and the Public vs. Private Debate


Sex Bloggers and Traffic


Well, it's amazing just how many things have happened in my little BDSM universe this week. Some highs and lows...and lots to make me think yet even more enigmatic thoughts.

Well, to begin with, for a brief millisecond, I was part of a sex bloggers group site.
Now isn't that just...odd.

When I was invited to join the site, I admit that I had doubts about being part of the project. But I was reassured that they were trying to find a very large cross-section of bloggers to add more flavour. So I went ahead and joined. And tentatively posted just one post to test the waters. One of my poems. Which I've added to at least 3 blog sites, including this Enigmatic Angel blog. Now, this particular poem had received some very strong reactions when I posted it before. But on the sex bloggers site? Zip. Nada. Nunca. Niente. So I stood back aways, looking at this sex blogger project unfold and see what kind of content would start to shape the site. Oh yes, there was lots of sex. But also lots and lots of sex toy reviews, with the appropriate affiliate links attached. Well, actually a whole page was devoted to Reviews. So I started to see where things were headed.

I have nothing against sex bloggers, really. I enjoy reading sex blogs when I am in the right mood for it.

But I'm not a sex blogger. Yes, what I write can be exciting and sometimes sensual. But very little of the content of my blog site is sexual. It's much more about the mental state of mind that comes with BDSM. And the BDSM in my world does not necessarily come (ha!) wrapped in sex. That's just me.

What my writing (and this blog) is about is a hint of kink. A touch of fetish. And a helluva lot of BDSM. That's what I am all about. And yes, first and foremost - I am a writer. I love writing my poetry. Whether it's my vanilla poetry which is featured on my 4 vanilla blogs out in the blogosphere. Or whether it's my more sensual and bdsm-flavoured offerings, posted right here on The Enigmatic Angel.

So while I was making up my mind & dealing with my ambivalent feelings about being part of a sex bloggers group - they decided to make my mind up for me - by giving me what they called the gentle boot.

Oh yes, I had become too small a fish to swim in their waters. Not when they were busy writing splashy intros for sex writers who wrote for the N.Y. Village Voice and the like. I had neither the traffic numbers - nor the blogosphere fame (or infamy) that they were interested in.

Ah well. C'est la vie as they say. You know it didn't even make me angry, truth be told. I didn't feel great about the project, so it just made my mind clearer that it was good for me not to be involved in that project.

I can't argue against people who believe in numbers and traffic. They have their value in the blogosphere. Lots of people have respect for them.

You know, I got a real taste of the thrill of numbers when I participated in the Sugasm for a few weeks. Oh my goodness, did my traffic numbers go through the roof! Oh yes - that was a delicious moment. Quite the thrill.

But then I started to think, what do numbers mean?
I'll tell you what numbers are most important to me.

The amount of time a reader spends on my blog - and the number of pages they view.

I really wish I could know who those readers are - the ones who get me or really want to know me.
You know, the ones who spend the most time on my blog site.
The ones who view the most pages.
The ones who add me to their special blog rolls - not the ones who SAY they will add me...and never do.

Thank YOU
so much to all those who added my blog to your own site!
And those priceless treasures - the readers who return, time and time again, to read my blog.

Now if you are one of those readers - please, I'd love to hear from you!
Tell what it is that you're reading. Leave a comment (oh those treasured comments) or send me a private msg through my Contact The Enigmatic Angel link.

Why are you spending time on my blog?
Kinky enquiring minds want to know!

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Kinky Festival Thoughts

This Kinky Festival week-end was quite an eventful one that also made me think of what was important to me, in terms of my interest in BDSM.

Saturday afternoon was fun because I helped out my good friend Lady Evyl at her funSexxxtoys booth.

Oh I met many interesting people while helping out at the Merchant expo. The highlight for me of the whole Kinky Festival was by far meeting and chatting with Lew Rubens, internationally-acclaimed Rope Artist and so much more. Now why was meeting him such a highlight? Because he was really such a great guy! And funny! Really great to chat with. That was a wonderful moment meeting Lew, the "Bondage Consultant" for Kink.com. Oh and I chatted with him about how he shot my very favourite bondage picture of his. You just have to see it - it's SO amazing. You can find it here. Well, anyway, I was really impressed when I met Lew in person. How rare it is to meet someone so famous, who is also so genuine and down-to-earth.

Later on that night, I had fun doing a private photo shoot with
Lady Evyl and her sweet submissive Anastasia. It was great to try out some ideas I had in my head of what would be great to shoot of the two of them. There are a few very special shots that came out of that. It was delightful to shoot them, really.

And of course, Saturday night was the night of the Kinky Festival's probably most-hyped highlight of the whole week-end - the Dark Fairy Tales Ball. Les Bains Mathieu was really cool and atmospheric and I enjoyed the ambiance. But being at that party made me think of my very own Dark Fairy Tale - the story of my last 10 years of practising BDSM. And you know what? When I came home, I decided my private play sessions are what I want to concentrate on more. Nothing compares to that intensity, and the depth of my private experiences. So, you will be seeing less of this Enigmatic Angel at public events, while I focus more on my private life.

Fact is, I am a very private person by nature. Hard to believe of someone who has 5 blogs, right? But it's true, nevertheless. I am enigmatic by nature and by choice.

And that's all she wrote.

Angel :)

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Sunday, August 3, 2008

whisper


a small breath of sound
carried on the wind
teases my ear
with a barely indiscernible touch -
makes me smile.

*** Angel

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Friday, July 25, 2008

toi et moi


douce douce douce
ah cette touche
qui fait tourner
la tête

un glissement sur la peau
qui fait échapper
un petit murmure
du désir

ah celui qui
veux veux veux
d’être voulu comme ça
un petit cadeau
qui fait sourire
la bouche

je t’imagine
ici
et là
comme ça
avec moi

toi et moi
des possibilités
qui retournent
qui fait tourner
la tête.

*** Angel

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Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #141


Pic: Tara Tainton courtesy of Porn Saints.

Taste the Sugasm....
Go on....you know you want to... ;)

Angel :)

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.

Want in Sugasm #142? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.


This Week’s Picks


Comedy vs. Tragedy
“Are you on your period? What? Did he just say…”

Ian, or, Sometimes Sex is Hilarious
“In short, it isn’t sex blogger sex.”

A Wish
“I wish that you could know the indescribable pleasure of being enfolded in your warm, gentle wetness.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Road Rage

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
Auction of a Slave
Changing Cravings For Pain: A Survey ******MY SUGASM ENTRY******
A Beautifully Cruel Predicament Bondage Scene
Cuntwriting
Fitting Punishment
The house in Vienna
July MVK: Play piercing
Leather Retreat 2008 – The Toll Booth
Mz Berlin Gets The Bastinado And Rack Torture On Hogtied
Necessary Roughness
Routine Maintenance, pt. 2
A Scene in Three Parts … (part III)
Taken and Collared as a Sex Slave while her husband sleeps
Telegraph
Trying on new shoes, Friday night edition

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Forgetting
How Do You Flirt With Milk?
The Hunt
I Don’t Usually Date, but…
I have huge tits.
Men on Pointe
My Femme Cock
Nibbles and Bits: Vegetarian? Really? Doh!
Present and first love making

Sex Advice
How to Make Her Want Anal Sex
Play Safe
The Power of Suggestion- And How It Helps You Meet Women

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Gisele Bundchen Topless and Nipple Slip Pictures
HNT - Purple Lace Part Two
Lady Sascha Does HHNT
Marta - Professional
Once upon a time HNT
Pornsaint Tara Tainton
A rose by any other name would smell as sweet -HNT
Sam Bound

Sex Humor
It did not work
When your mother has more sex than you do…

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Can’t Get Enough
Fiction - The Wrong Smith Girl
Getting to fuck the neighbor 15
Harder…
In any language,…
Le Cadeaux
Nine: of nasty names
Oh Honey, Make Yourself Cum for Me
The Parking Garage
Pointless
The Ride.
Rub a Dub Dub
The Second Time Around
Slow.Soft.Hot.Perfect
Spin the bottle-the conclusion
Tits~n~Teets 2
TNT - Part 2
The Wanting
Writhe

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Can A Film Prostitute In 1930’s Shanghai Fare Any Better Than One Of The 100,000 Prostitutes Working The Streets In The City?
Donate To Satine Phoenix’s Tantric Exploration
Escort X: Find great escorts
Spanking erotica interview with Alison Tyler
The value of erotic blogging
Wanted: Your Orgasms Caught on Tape

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Thursday, July 17, 2008

Traces of love, Traces of pain




i stalked through the streets of the Plateau
following the spoor of a prey
only my eyes
and the eyes of my camera could see

i love uncovering the secrets of Montreal this way
shooting and framing it for my pleasure
exposing something only my eye spots
in a sea of overflowing stimuli


traces of love


the traces of love called to me, beckoned
a curious stamp on different textured surfaces
stone, wood, brick – anywhere there was a small free space
a bleeding heart that smudged
when quickly and surreptitiously
splashed
onto the walls
by the nimble hands of the graffiti artist


bam bam bam
love love love was here
and is now gone

Who was the lover?
and who was the beloved?


my camera continued to follow the trail

hoping for more clues
capturing the evidence

traces of pain

all along the same stretch of funky boutiques, used book and cd shops
and other arty little curiosities
i found a twin trail following the love

the trail of pain
a shocking spray paint gash of a band-aid
covering what i wondered
band-aid after band-aid after band-aid
i captured all these jewelled badges
this gaudy rainbow of pain
the trail of pain crying out
for just a kiss

to make it all better

a week later

i head back to the scene
to check what happened to the traces

the traces of pain
being made of a more stubborn substance
remain in their flashy glory

the traces of love
have been washed away
by an uncaring hand
who only saw
the ugliness of insidious art
and not the tenderness of the hand
that had created it

time passes

one day, much to my surprise
i find a band-aid slashing a wall
just around the corner
from where i live

oh yes there is pain here
and somehow the pain knew
it would be welcome
close to home.



*** Angel

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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Changing Cravings For Pain: A Survey


The Effect Of Pain On The Body - Long Term


This is something that has been on my mind quite a bit these last few months, and wanted to hear some opinions on the subject.

Burning questions for your consideration:
  1. For those of you into pain, have you noticed any changes in your pain tolerance as time goes on?
  2. As time goes on, do you find yourself craving more pain? Or less?
  3. What is the effect long-term of physical punishment on the body?
  4. For those who have years of experience, has your tolerance for pain grown...or diminished?
  5. What other factors affect one's tolerance for pain?
  6. What other factors affect one's craving and desire for pain?
I was talking to a fellow Switch at a Kinky BBQ I attended recently on the subject of pain. Judging from the scars he showed me on his face and body, this was someone who did have a good tolerance for pain. After the play session he had there, he mentioned how good it felt to feel the pain again and how much he had missed it, since it had been quite some time since he had experienced pain on a regular basis.

I myself definitely have a taste for pain, on both sides of the equation. Lately I have been finding my tolerance seems to have diminished, to my dismay. I don't know if this is just a temporary aberration happening for some reason. It made me wonder if the body stores a sense memory in the tissues and that perhaps at some point it becomes too sensitized. Is this possible?

Yet on the other hand, I was also talking to some Dominants (at the same Kinky BBQ) about how some people develop "leather asses", who require higher and higher levels of pain to be delivered on their bodies to be able to actually feel the pain.

Lots of food for thought.

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I would appreciate any comments and feed-back on this subject!

Please enter comments on this post or send me private messages via my Contact The Enigmatic Angel link.

Thanks!
Angel :)

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Tasting The Sugasm...Sugasm #140


Pic: Mistress E courtesy of Dark Mistress.

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Warning:

Tasting the Sugasm can be highly addictive!

I know I'm hooked!

Angel ;)

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #141? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

“Are you a sex blogger or a sexy blogger?”
“It builds a community that I am so proud to be part of.”

The J Word
“And while you’re with her, I’ll be with him.”

Transcending moment
”It’s that place between fear and arousal, and they are so very closely related.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Chill Pleasure

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
Bathroom bang
Bros Not Hoes - F/m Spanking Video Clip
Cock training
Galerías de spanking: Spanking Server
Games Grown Ups Play
The Most Amazing Sex (and I didn’t come)
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Have Great Sex (Again)

My First Ever Fetish Photography Shoot & Other Wonderful Things (****MY SUGASM ENTRY!****)

New spanking gallerie - Two girls spanked
Religion and BDSM
Rope
TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!
Your Slut

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-How Do I Know If A Girl Likes Me?
Fetish Safety - Branding
The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Advanced Exhibitionism
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 2
Club Tantra: My Experience, Unabridged
Distraction
Fucking no foreplay
Getting to fuck the neighbor 9
Him
HNT - Peach
Insanity never felt so good
Interludes - part 1
Memoir Of A Married Woman
Popping His Cherry
Re: Dinner Last Night
“Red Bottoms” (Complete)
Sloppy Seconds, Then Thirds
That Time of the Month
Whiskey Kisses (unedited)

Sex Work
Sex Worker Solidarity: Catalina
Happy Thoughts on Being a Phonesex Op…
Stamp on my forehead saying “ask me about your fetish”

Sex & Politics
Natalia Antonova on Objectification and Desire
Teen Sex: The New After-School Special?
Women Enjoy Relative Sexual Freedom this 4th of July

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #18: Artemis Hunter and the Silver Bullet
Calstar Spanking - Severe deep stripe marks
Cheerleader is tired in gangbang video
Free video audition of Amsterdam sex performer
Half-Nekkid and Getting Shaved
HNT - A bit cheeky
HNT - Purple Lace
Making Love to the Camera
Mz Berlin Took This Picture Of Herself In Her New Wasp Creation Corset

Sex Humor
Top 6 Reasons for Not Shaving Your Beaver

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Catalina loves Lochai
Comstock Films
Drink Semen for Better Health
Interview about spanking erotica with Spanked contributor Teresa Noelle Roberts
January Seraph Is A Hot Femdom Dominating Jade Indica In Lesbian Latex Role Play
The Monday Buzz: The Bandito
Penny Flame Fucks A Handyman With A Strap-On and Feeds Him His Own Cum
Product Research: Blow Job Dildo
Yes! Yes! Yes! Personal Lubricant

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Be nice… until it is time to not be nice…
Finding out your good friends are swingers
Naughty Text Messages and Perverted Friends Makes Life Fun
Sex Advice Review: “Tips to Better Sex and Sleep”
Silence.

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